Whether you are in a stable relationship that simply needs strengthening, or in a painful relationship that feels empty, I’m so glad you have decided to seek help.

I help couples identify and change the patterns that leave you feeling angry and misunderstood, leading to a more peaceful and healthy relationship. Couples often struggle with communication, parenting, in-laws, money, roles and responsibilities, household management, intimacy and sex, as well as the problem of growing apart and living in silence.

I help you:

• Learn skills to communicate better
• Learn skills to resolve conflict
• Rekindle passion
• Heal hurts and wounds and practice forgiveness
• Increase intimacy
• Renew friendship
• Deepen trust
• Strengthen commitment to each other

• Recognizing repeating patterns of how you negatively interact
• Accessing core emotions that drive your unhappiness, anxiety and unproductive behaviors
• Using practical tools to help you break your cycle of hurtful arguing and fighting or of cool indifference
• Developing new ways of relating and communicating

Have you experienced infidelity?

Couples also come to me wanting to repair the damage caused by infidelity.

I can help you with the very human goal of sorting through the confusion and putting a name to all of the feelings you are both experiencing. I will assist you in negotiating a new path for your relationship. Often this means talking with each other about what was lost and learning how trust is rebuilt.